The Impact of Judgment in Our lives
by Sylvie Olivier
If we were aware of the damage caused by judging ourselves and others, perhaps we would make different choices… even very different ones!
Indeed, judgment causes a SIGNIFICANT drop in the body’s vibrational frequency, almost instantly.
What does this drop in vibrational frequency represent in our lives?
A multitude of obstacles and contractions of all kinds… in all areas of our lives. And most certainly, a life that is not lived to its full potential! Whether it’s in terms of physical vitality, mental acuity, harmony in our relationships, career growth, new contracts… everything is affected… including our financial situation!
Judgment
Let’s take a closer look at judgment now in order to recognize what it really is.
Judgment, whether positive or negative, comes from the mental archives located at the base of the skull, which are formed from belief systems, opinions, behavior patterns, and thought patterns that were instilled in us from the third trimester of our mother’s pregnancy and have grown over time.
So even before we were born, we began to form beliefs about our survival, where we would have to constantly compare, evaluate, and judge in order to be accepted, appreciated, and loved. It’s no wonder that judgment is so deeply rooted in the human psyche! Our mother did the best she could with the resources she had at the time of her pregnancy and what she knew, so there is no judgment here. We fully honor her journey!
A New Opportunity
We now have the opportunity to change our quality of life by changing our thoughts and behaviors.
Science now demonstrates what ancient cultures have always known. Living from the neutrality of the heart offers tremendous benefits at all levels of our lives!
First, let me ask you these two questions to clarify your choice to embrace this new opportunity.
- Instead of constantly judging, are you ready to remove the filter that distorts what you see and open yourself up to appreciating life as it is?
Please note that the question is not “how” to do it, but rather whether you are open to removing the filter of judgment from your life.
- Are you ready to consider that whatever the behavior of your neighbor, colleague, family member, or even a stranger, it is only the result of their own mental archives at work?
If people were aware of the quality of their vibrational signal and its impact on their lives, it would be so simple to stop holding judgment.
The Unique Combination of Mental Archives
First of all, how can we judge another person’s mental archives when we have never lived their experience?
If we started by breathing and welcoming people as they are, without wanting to change them, with compassion for them, even if their various behaviors seem inappropriate, we could live in a much more peaceful and harmonious way.
Each of us “inherits” a set of mental archives from our parents’ beliefs, and we interpret them in our own unique way. It often happens that members of the same family, having had the same experiences, see things differently. Why? Simply because we interpret situations differently.
Self-Judgment
In addition to constantly judging each other, we have become masters in the art of self-judgment, which can be merciless!
We are often so harsh on ourselves, without realizing that these vibrational frequencies of judgment create limitations in our lives.
For example:
- The promotion at work that we were expecting is offered to someone else.
- Our finances are regularly limited.
- Relationships are often difficult and tense.
Over time, the body becomes overloaded and shows us this through physical pain and muscle tension… and eventually discomfort that will turn into illness.
In short, when we lower our vibrational frequency through judgment of ourselves or others, we close the doors to resources that are ready to open up to us, as well as to clarity, fluidity, lightness, and simplicity!
You are probably familiar with the Law of Attraction, or perhaps you even use techniques to take advantage of it. Be aware that when you visualize all the positive and beautiful things you would like to see happen in your life, you are using the polarity of the two hemispheres of the brain, so you also receive its negative equivalent. This is obviously not what I am suggesting you try. Rather, I am talking about welcoming everything with complete neutrality.
Indeed, by opening yourself up to welcoming all the resources that the Universe makes available to you, you remain in the neutrality of the heart and your life is so much simpler, more fluid, and in continual expansion!
Now, what do you say?
Are you ready to free yourself from judgment and automatically raise your vibration?
By answering YES to this question, you release the old, heavy structures vibrating at a low frequency. All kinds of opportunities will come your way and your life will become much more fluid, abundant, and enjoyable!
I am very aware that this last statement may seem utopian. However, I invite you to explore it for yourself instead of judging it spontaneously.
I invite you to continue reading this trilogy of articles by reading the one entitled “The True Nature of Compassion,” which offers concrete tools to help you put this life of fluidity and expansion into practice.
Happy reading!