Which do you pick…the security of a swimming pool or the vastness of the sea?
In order to fully benefit from this article, I’d like to invite you to read the article “What if money was your best friend…how would you treat it?” prior to reading this article.
Money is such a taboo subject for many…in general, as a society, we’ve given it all kinds of roles and we’ve placed our security in its ‘hands’. It’s therefore not surprising that financial insecurity is on the rise during this time of financial uncertainty.
If you’ve read any of my other articles, you already know that I always invite you to dive in to neutrality rather than stay prisoner to duality.
To begin, let’s explore some of the factors that filter our existing reality. The mental archives located at the base of our skull stimulate the crystallized emotions lodged in our glandular and nervous systems and form the protective layers that stop us from welcoming all financial resources efficiently and with fluidity and grace.
Abundance Scale (In Duality)
During childhood, most of us lived in one of the following types of environments:
- Our parents had trouble making ends meet and lived in a constant state of stress;
- Our parents were comfortable financially but were never able to live out their dreams;
- Our parents lived in financial abundance but were always afraid of losing everything they’d worked so hard to obtain.
I invite you to now revisit your childhood and feel the contractions in your body surrounding money…. you’ll notice the energy of lack that’s present. Society is built on comparisons, limitations and high performance. So what do we do? We compare ourselves to others, we see our limitations and we roll up our sleeves and work even harder… to the point of blood, sweat and tears in order to perform and achieve our objectives.
Whether you find yourself in a situation where you’re struggling to make ends meet, feel that you’re limited by a financial ceiling, or you’re worried about losing your assets is irrelevant given that it’s the same energy that’s present in all of these situations…it’s the energy of a fear of lack!
Whether you’re conscious of it or not, you then focus on your fear of lack as it overtakes your thoughts and actions, and this determines the vibrational signal you’re sending out into the Universe…which will expand and come back to you tenfold!!!
This vibrational signal cannot be controlled through sheer will…it’s comprised of all the mental archives and crystallized emotions that get stimulated by the outside world, whether it be family members, friends, colleagues or the media.
Because this signal is polarized, it has a positive and a negative and of course, you want to create positives in your financial life such as accumulating assets. What you may not realize is that by default, you’ll automatically attract its negative counterpart… liabilities.
So what if you were presented with an alternative?
Abundance Scale (In Neutrality)
Welcoming abundance in neutrality requires that you free yourself of all patterns and beliefs concerning survival. Of course, our parents did the best they could with what was available back then. The time has now come for us to examine these so-called beliefs and question their pertinence as well as their impact on our lives.
To better explain what’s possible in this new paradigm, I’ll like to invite you to picture the following: a swimming pool and the sea.
The security of the swimming pool
Step inside the swimming pool and feel what’s there. This space represents the security of your reference points. In fact, everything you’ve ever learned is present in the pool and you can see it all, the ideas, the beliefs, the strategies…absolutely everything is visible since the container holding the water is visibly tangible. So when you’re looking for something, it’s pretty easy to find. You’re in chartered waters since you see all of your reference points, your strategies, your plans and objectives. This description represents the existing financial paradigm, which is a duality based abundance scale.
Stuck in this paradigm, you believe that abundance is limited and that you have to figure out a way to get your share as fast as possible… kind of like when you were a child and swam as fast as you could to retrieve all of the loose change that was thrown into the swimming pool! You had to swim as fast as you could to grab as much as you could. The quickest and most strategic swimmer won!
Furthermore, as you take a look around inside the swimming pool, you can see all of the material assets that you’ve managed to amass thus far, whether it’s real estate, assets in the form of financial placements or others, they’re all with you in this pool. That’s what makes it so easy to fall into the trap of a false sense of security and wanting to stay there at all costs.
However, if you can see the bottom of the swimming pool along with its surrounding walls, then you’re also aware that it represents limitations, right?
The vastness of the Sea
And now!!! I’d like to propose a brand new playground of unimaginable magnitude: the sea!!! The vastness of the sea can seem daunting at first since you no longer have any of your reference points to rely on, you can’t hold on to the walls or see the bottom of the pool! It’s the unknown!
When we stand on the beach and enter the sea, the waves and the undercurrent shuffle us about…so yes, it’s scary! But, it’s also there at the bottom of the sea that the most beautiful treasures reside…hidden beneath its depths…waiting for you to dive in!
By only dipping in your big toe, your feet will sink…if you go in up to your knees; you’ll undeniably get shuffled around. By continuing up to your thighs, the waves will certainly shake you about if you try to stay immobile. As long as you try to stay above the water the waves will always throw you off balance, it’s a fact.
However, when you choose to dive into the waves, calmness will appear…grace and ease are there and you no longer have to fight. The deeper in you go, the more you’ll see the beautiful seashells, the corals, the fish…all of the colors and facets of the rainbow. Abundance will reveal itself before your eyes…unlimited and always in expansion.
The Crossroad
You now find yourself at a crossroad that requires you to make a very specific choice: remain under the influence of the duality based abundance scale or access the neutrality based abundance scale. In order to dive into the sea, you know that you’ll have to leave the comfort and security of the swimming pool… right? You can’t stay in the pool and try to get into the sea at the same time! And if you choose to only dip your big toe, you’ll quickly feel that sinking sensation!
The sea represents the vastness of all experiences accessible in neutrality. Neutrality exists even if you choose to stay in the pool that seems safer. In the pool you can see the assets you’ve already acquired but you also feel the need to accumulate more in order to help keep you feeling safe. You know that you’ll have to work hard to keep your head out of the water and continue performing in order to make a living. In fact, given that resources are limited in the swimming pool, they must be acquired through hard labor and at the detriment of others. The more you accumulate, the less that remains for others. This is the law of duality/polarity.
So, by diving into the ocean, financial resources will multiply and expand since they’re constantly renewing themselves… and your “basin” has drastically changed sizes! You tap into the immensity of the human experience … you welcome all forms of abundance as your birthright and you only have to take a few inspired actions to create concrete and exceptional results. Moreover, this pool is big enough to share with everyone! It’s available for absolutely all of Humanity!
Now is the time to make a choice!
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It would be my pleasure to read about your experience with neutrality…either through our Facebook page or on our blog!!!
Happy welcoming!
Sylvie Olivier