{"id":92486,"date":"2026-07-31T16:46:40","date_gmt":"2026-07-31T20:46:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/goldenheartwisdom.com\/?p=92486"},"modified":"2026-07-31T17:40:49","modified_gmt":"2026-07-31T21:40:49","slug":"the-famous-victim-savior-bully-pattern","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/goldenheartwisdom.com\/en\/the-famous-victim-savior-bully-pattern\/","title":{"rendered":"The Famous Victim-Savior-Bully Pattern"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"92486\" class=\"elementor elementor-92486 elementor-92478\" data-elementor-post-type=\"post\">\n\t\t\t\t<div data-particle_enable=\"false\" data-particle-mobile-disabled=\"false\" class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-e4e0a67 plein-largeur e-con-full e-flex e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"e4e0a67\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t<div data-particle_enable=\"false\" data-particle-mobile-disabled=\"false\" class=\"elementor-element 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\/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-483767c elementor-widget elementor-widget-spacer\" data-id=\"483767c\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"spacer.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer-inner\"><\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div data-particle_enable=\"false\" data-particle-mobile-disabled=\"false\" class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-e96a521 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"e96a521\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t<div data-particle_enable=\"false\" data-particle-mobile-disabled=\"false\" class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-a85f039 e-con-full e-flex e-con e-child\" data-id=\"a85f039\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-b269a11 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"b269a11\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">The Famous Victim-Savior-Bully Pattern\n<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-d7fe53e elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"d7fe53e\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<h5 style=\"text-align: center;\">by Sylvie Olivier<\/h5>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div data-particle_enable=\"false\" data-particle-mobile-disabled=\"false\" class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-bd19101 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"bd19101\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t<div data-particle_enable=\"false\" data-particle-mobile-disabled=\"false\" class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-459263f e-con-full e-flex e-con e-child\" data-id=\"459263f\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-d337da4 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"d337da4\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-b1f2e87 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-particle_enable=\"false\" data-particle-mobile-disabled=\"false\" data-id=\"b1f2e87\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\"><div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\"><div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-397809a5\" data-id=\"397809a5\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\"><div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\"><div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-e0a5f46 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"e0a5f46\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\"><p>In the vibrational signal of the vast majority of people lies a pattern called <strong>\u201cvictim-savior-bully.\u201d<\/strong><\/p><p>Over the years, we have recognized that all three are present in each of us, with <strong>one aspect being more dominant depending on perceptions, experiences, and childhood memories.<\/strong><\/p><p>For example, some people feel <strong>constantly \u201cvictimized\u201d<\/strong> by situations related to their health, relationships, finances, work, or other experiences.<\/p><p>They naturally attract a <strong>savior<\/strong> to \u201chelp\u201d them get out of their situation&#8230; and, by the same token, a <strong>bully<\/strong> to confirm their position as a victim.<\/p><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/section>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-84d00a2 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"84d00a2\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-b1f2e87 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-particle_enable=\"false\" data-particle-mobile-disabled=\"false\" data-id=\"b1f2e87\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\"><div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\"><div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-397809a5\" data-id=\"397809a5\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\"><div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\"><div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-e0a5f46 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"e0a5f46\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\"><h5 style=\"text-align: center;\">Without <strong>victims<\/strong>, <strong>saviors<\/strong> and <strong>bullies<\/strong> would cease to exist.<\/h5><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/section>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-d216305 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"d216305\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-b1f2e87 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-particle_enable=\"false\" data-particle-mobile-disabled=\"false\" data-id=\"b1f2e87\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\"><div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\"><div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-397809a5\" data-id=\"397809a5\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\"><div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\"><div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-e0a5f46 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"e0a5f46\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\"><p>The same is true for<strong> saviors<\/strong>. Saviors need to feel useful. They seek out situations where they can \u201cintervene\u201d on behalf of people they perceive as helpless, victims of circumstances, the government, illness, injustice, etc.<\/p><p>They often consider it their <strong>moral duty to help<\/strong>, to denounce manipulators, authority figures, or any form of power perceived as abusive.<\/p><p>But without a savior, <strong>victims and bullies would meet more quickly<\/strong>, and often<strong> the conflict would exhaust itself<\/strong>. The savior acts as an <strong>energy buffer<\/strong>\u2014sometimes creating a delay in the natural release of the pattern.<\/p><p>The<strong> bully<\/strong>, on the other hand, values strength. They despise what they perceive as weakness, seek to dominate, and claim to respect only \u201cthose who stand tall.\u201d They feed the illusion of power and control\u2014while <strong>remaining caught in the same loop<\/strong> of inner imbalance.<\/p><p>And without a bully, the victim-savior game <strong>ceases to be justified<\/strong>.<\/p><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/section>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6606fc8 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"6606fc8\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" width=\"1000\" height=\"635\" src=\"https:\/\/goldenheartwisdom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/AdobeStock_78570747.jpeg\" class=\"attachment-full size-full wp-image-89750\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/goldenheartwisdom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/AdobeStock_78570747.jpeg 1000w, 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elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-particle_enable=\"false\" data-particle-mobile-disabled=\"false\" data-id=\"b1f2e87\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\"><div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\"><div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-397809a5\" data-id=\"397809a5\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\"><div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\"><div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-e0a5f46 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"e0a5f46\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\"><h5><strong>Return to the Self with Conscious Breathing<\/strong><\/h5><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/section>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-8ac8844 elementor-widget 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data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\"><p>Here is a simple practice to assist you <strong>recenter yourself, reconnect with your inner self,<\/strong> and <strong>release this pattern<\/strong> without struggle or resistance.<\/p><p><strong>The Breathing Technique in 4 Movements<\/strong><\/p><p><em>We invite you to do this exercise while lying down.<br \/><\/em><\/p><ol><li><strong>Take a deep breath through your nose,<\/strong> bringing your attention to your pelvis. <em>Feel the support of the floor or mattress. Let your body settle completely<\/em><br \/><em>(4 seconds)<\/em><\/li><li><strong>Take a deep breath through your nose,<\/strong> bringing your attention to your pelvis. <em>Feel the support of the floor or mattress. Let your body settle completely<\/em><br \/><em>(4 seconds)<\/em><\/li><li><strong>Exhale slowly through your mouth,<\/strong> releasing all burdens, tensions, and roles.<br \/><em>(4 seconds)<\/em><\/li><li><strong>Pause without air,<\/strong> in the void&#8230; without expectation.<br \/><em>Allow a space to emerge within you that is larger than your mechanisms.<\/em><br \/><em>(4 seconds)<\/em><\/li><\/ol><p>Repeat<strong> 4 complete cycles<\/strong> with your eyes closed, allowing this intention to arise:<\/p><p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #82323c;\"><strong>\u201cI free myself from roles. I choose presence.\u201d<\/strong><\/span><\/p><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/section>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div data-particle_enable=\"false\" data-particle-mobile-disabled=\"false\" class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-bfc74e7 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"bfc74e7\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t<div data-particle_enable=\"false\" data-particle-mobile-disabled=\"false\" class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-395c700 e-con-full e-flex e-con e-child\" data-id=\"395c700\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c774a48 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"c774a48\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1000\" height=\"565\" src=\"https:\/\/goldenheartwisdom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/Pattern-Victime-\u2013-Sauveur-\u2013-Bourreau-1.jpeg\" class=\"attachment-full size-full wp-image-89746\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/goldenheartwisdom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/Pattern-Victime-\u2013-Sauveur-\u2013-Bourreau-1.jpeg 1000w, https:\/\/goldenheartwisdom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/Pattern-Victime-\u2013-Sauveur-\u2013-Bourreau-1-600x339.jpeg 600w, https:\/\/goldenheartwisdom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/Pattern-Victime-\u2013-Sauveur-\u2013-Bourreau-1-400x226.jpeg 400w, https:\/\/goldenheartwisdom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/Pattern-Victime-\u2013-Sauveur-\u2013-Bourreau-1-300x170.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/goldenheartwisdom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/Pattern-Victime-\u2013-Sauveur-\u2013-Bourreau-1-768x434.jpeg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div data-particle_enable=\"false\" data-particle-mobile-disabled=\"false\" class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-838ff53 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"838ff53\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t<div data-particle_enable=\"false\" data-particle-mobile-disabled=\"false\" class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1049816 e-con-full e-flex e-con e-child\" data-id=\"1049816\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-f31475f elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"f31475f\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2cd694c8 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"2cd694c8\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\"><h5><strong>Awareness Tips<\/strong><\/h5><p>Ask yourself the following question: <strong>\u201cWhat role do I play most often?\u201d<\/strong><br \/>Not to judge yourself. Just to <strong>see and be aware.<\/strong><\/p><p><strong>Notice:<\/strong><br \/>\u2192 Do I wait for someone to come and save me?<br \/>\u2192 Do I intervene without being asked?<br \/>\u2192 Do I seek to control or dominate in order to feel secure?<\/p><p><strong>Then ask yourself:<\/strong><br \/><em><strong>\u201cAnd if I no longer needed this role, who would I be?\u201d<\/strong><\/em><\/p><p>You are neither a victim, nor a savior, nor a bully.<br \/>You are a <strong>whole and complete being<\/strong>, capable of feeling, welcoming, choosing&#8230; from within.<\/p><\/div>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-923a9f1 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"923a9f1\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2cd694c8 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"2cd694c8\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\"><h5><strong>Conclusion&#8230; Another Way: The Way of the Heart<br \/><\/strong><\/h5><p>Instead of remaining trapped in this triangle of roles, it is possible to <strong>return to the Center<\/strong>.<\/p><p>The Heart does not need to control. It does not need to be saved. It does not allow itself to be dominated.<\/p><ul><li>The Heart <strong>sees clearly without judging.<\/strong><\/li><li>It <strong>feels without losing itself.<\/strong><\/li><li>It <strong>assists without fading away.<\/strong><\/li><\/ul><p>When you choose to live <strong>from the frequency of the Heart,<\/strong> the dynamics of the trio die out on their own.<\/p><p>Not through rejection.<br \/>Through <strong>non-resonance.<\/strong><\/p><p>You are no longer caught up in the game.<br \/>You become the mirror of what is possible beyond this pattern.<\/p><p>And that is&#8230; where true freedom begins.<\/p><p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>With Love,<\/strong><\/p><h5 style=\"text-align: center;\">Sylvie Olivier<\/h5><\/div>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In the vibrational signal of the vast majority of people lies a pattern called \u201cvictim-savior-bully.\u201d Over the years, we have recognized that all three are present in each of us, with one aspect being more dominant depending on perceptions, experiences, and childhood memories.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":505,"featured_media":89747,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"elementor_header_footer","format":"standard","meta":{"site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","ast-disable-related-posts":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"set","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"h5ap_radio_sources":[],"footnotes":""},"categories":[711],"tags":[771,848,730,736],"class_list":["post-92486","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-articles","tag-breathing-exercise","tag-conscious","tag-patterns","tag-vibrational-signal"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v28.1 - 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